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Can A Boy and Girl be friends??? I mean
JUST FRIENDS....
A question that raises many eyebrows
and according to a survey when people around 70 percent were in
denial mode,10 percent said Yes and the rest 20 percent had no
fucking idea as they hardly had any friend from the opposite sex.A
society where for girls having friends from other gender is consider
to be a taboo or be it a Bollywood movie that has never sticked to
the tag of Just Friends and annoying always make one fall for his/her
best friend. The Indian education system is
always in a denial that there is actually a problem of communication
between genders and schools and college's are the places where one
gets ridicule because of casual conversations with girls.There
is no justification over why such scenario prevails even though we
live in 21st century as most of the time the seed is cultivated in
one's childhood,as every child gets addressed regarding the type of
friends he/she should make.
I don't know if anybody goes by my
thinking(Actually I don't care,everyone have their own presence of
mind) that if not main its definitely one of the main reason for the
growing number of rape cases in India.From their early childhood,boys
may grow up into men being indifferent, hostile and inconsiderate
towards women and girls into a women being paranoid, disgusted and
perhaps even suspicion of every men.Its gets into one's psyche
permanently and what it can possibly leads to is one thing everyone
knows.Everyone has their own right to mingle with that person with
whom he/she feels comfortable and it should not be discriminated
based on one's gender because finally what matter the most is one's
very own mindset.
Its my blog and definitely my say
matter the most and now coming on personal experience I admit Yes,we
can be Just friends,not only friend but BEST friend and it really
feels great to have really good friends from both the genders and
to share everything under the Sun with them without any
restriction.Yes,I do agree sometimes it becames difficult to stick
into being only friends with that particular someone but its just a
phase because
“HAIN APNA DIL TO AWAARA NA JAANE KIS PE AAH JAYE!!!”
